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Behind the Lens | Laughing at the Days to Come

Sometimes life surprises you. Actually, a lot of times life surprises you. You have it in your head that things are going to go one way and then all of a sudden, something catches you off guard and throws off the plan. It’s pretty much a guarantee. A guarantee that you will be challenged to react to the unforeseen challenges that come your way. If you’re like me, you don’t mind a good challenge…it’s just that you want to be fully prepared for it, which in many ways completely undermines the whole purpose of a challenge. Well, last week I had some unexpected health issues with my shoulders. Nothing major so don’t worry, the ‘Get Well’ cards can be saved for another day. However, it was major enough to pull me out of work for a few days and make me worry about being able to fulfill my obligations to my clients (praise the Lord it was a quick healing and everything was fine). Major enough to be really frustrating as I felt like I shouldn’t be dealing with the issue I was dealing with. I was sitting on the couch, feeling all sorry for myself and wondering at God’s timing when my roommate suggested that I just laugh about it. Laugh about it? This idea seemed strange at first, laughing at this unexpected and honestly inconvenient issue I was having, but then it became hilarious. I started to laugh and then it was like the best kind of medicine. I am certainly not suggesting that we laugh at our trials in a way that negates their seriousness, but I do think I am suggesting that we practice a certain amount of joy in the midst of struggle. Why? Because joy is the best medicine and in my opinion, this life can throw nothing at us that isn’t shadowed in the greatness of the salvation that is offered through Christ. Our present struggles are a  ‘light momentary affliction that is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison,  as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” -2 Corinthians 4:17-18

Proverbs 31 describes a godly woman to be one who ‘is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.’ I don’t think she is laughing in a way that is haughty or ignorant of the difficult surprises that will come her way. Instead, I think she is laughing because she is unafraid. She does not fear struggle or surprise because she knows her feet are firmly planted in the assurance of her hope in Christ. Her hope is unwavering, freeing her to laugh at what might come her way for she will not be shaken. This is my prayer. That no matter what waves come my way, big or small, that I can smile at them knowing I will not be moved should my feet be firmly planted. Life surprises all of us…and I hope to laugh at it. 

(Pictures serve as great illustrations. Ran across this one and though it fit well. Totally did not see this wave coming…and I’m happy to say…I laughed about it)

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Navy and White Wedding | Blair + Cooper | Wichita, KS

View More: http://maryfieldsphotography.pass.us/whitley-hanningwedding3-29-14 So today’s Take Me Back post is a little bit different but very special. I decided to combine a wedding post and a TMB post because this couple really does take me back. You see I knew this couple before they were ever a them. In fact, I knew them before they knew each other… all thanks to a place that is near and to my heart and to theirs. It all began during the summer months of a little Ozark town within the gates of a special place called Kanakuk Kamp. All three of us were just crazy college kids wanting to spend our summers with other crazy college kids as we made lasting memories and tried to impact the next generation for Christ. We would work all day in the summer heat, put on crazy costumes just because, entertain children with silly skits and wacky games, and simply enjoyed being in a place of retreat from the world. If you’ve ever worked at a summer camp you know what I mean when I say there is nothing else like it. Your friendships develop quicker than anywhere else and somehow last longer because you’ve worked together so closely for a common goal and in some of the most stretching environments.

I knew Cooper first and then I met Blair…and then they met each other. They were friends first, not thinking much of it, until one summer when their particular positions at camp meant that they would be working closely together. All summer long their friendship deepened and so did their affection for one another. He began to see that this woman was something special and she began to see that she loved being with this man. I still remember the day she called me to tell me that he had asked her out…catching her completely off guard. For a little over a year they dated long distance and boy was it a sweet season of pursuit. These two are incredibly fun people separately but together…well together they are just a blast. Blair called me almost immediately after they got engaged and asked me to be there to photograph their special day. I of course heartily agreed, not wanting to miss such a wonderful celebration.

So, on a beautiful day in March, I loaded up in my car (having just shot another wedding) and drove through the night to be there with these two. It was totally worth it as I got to stand in agreement with them as they vowed forever. One of the reasons I love photographing weddings is because it celebrates something God so beautifully designed. Relationship. God is a relational God and He has made His people to be relational beings. Not only is that the beauty of marriage but it is also the beauty of those standing with you as you join in lifetime union. That is what made this day so special. Not only was I getting to document a union between two people who I love dearly but I was getting to do it surrounded by people who I love dearly. A good portion of the guests were people I had worked alongside during those hot summer months…creating again those sweet relationships. As Blair and Cooper held hands and exchanged rings, promising to be faithful til death, hundreds of people joined with them in support. I may have shed just a tear or two behind the camera as I witnessed such a beautiful event. Maybe.

Blair and Cooper, how fun that I have walked this journey with you literally since before the beginning. You two are some of my favorite people and I am beyond privileged to have been able to document such a wonderful day. I cannot wait to see where your journey as husband and wife takes you. I am confident that God will do mighty things through your marriage…and I am confident that it will include crazy costumes and epic dance moves.

So, in the name of sweet friendships,

I Say, Take Me Back! 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Stacy Squires Photography - October 28, 2014 - 6:02 pm

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Lakewood Country Club Wedding | Scholle + Brock

View More: http://maryfieldsphotography.pass.us/brown-wedding-4-5-14 “Marriage is the meeting of two hearts, two minds and two souls,” her father said as he gave his rehearsal dinner speech. “I wish you enjoyment for today, fulfillment for all your hopes and dreams for tomorrow and love and happiness forever and ever,” he spoke over them as tears filled both of their eyes. Their friends and family talked of her compassion and kindness for others, an ability to champion people unlike any other. They spoke of his exceptional and innate leadership that causes people to easily follow him. However, probably the most resounding message that came across as their friends and loved ones expressed their affection for this sweet couple was their overall care for people. It was a consistent theme as people shared how this couple had cared for them and gone above and beyond to love them well. My own particular story with this couple is no different. From the first time we met at Starbucks until they said goodbye on their wedding day, these two have treated me like a friend and have been such a joy to work with. There is a sincere and genuineness to these two that is so rare in people and even more rare that they share it equally. Their compassion and concern for the people around them matched with an overwhelming love for each other will take them places that I think few couples go and affect the world in ways that few couples do.

After several years of dating and sharing life, Brock and Scholle finally got to pledge forever and become husband and wife. It was a joyous day and one for much celebration. The April morning was rainy and wet but by the afternoon the sun had come out and was shining brightly on their special day. They said ‘I do’ and danced the night away as Mr. and Mrs. while their friends and family happily danced in agreement. Brock and Scholle, I can’t thank you enough for letting me be a part of your wedding and the engagement process. God is so good to give me clients like the two of you and I don’t take it for granted! I am encouraged to care for others the way that you care for those around you and each other. I can’t wait to see where the days ahead lead you two! Here’s to many long years of joy-filled marriage!

Enjoy some of my favs from their wedding!

Happy Monday!

 

 

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Take Me Back Tuesday | A Facebook Flashback

Today’s blog was supposed to be about something else but in the process of preparing for it, I decided to make a switch. I was inspired you might say. I was working on a TMBT post and I needed some old pictures to illustrate it well, so, naturally I went to Facebook. Let’s be honest, Facebook serves as the great archive of our lives. Whether you want to admit it or not, the ‘book’ is most likely your longest running and most organized timeline of your life. Your personal online scrapbook. I keep wondering what would happen if Facebook crashed and I lost all of my pictures…tragedy would ensue around the world…I’m pretty convinced. Anyway, I was scrolling through the pictures I am tagged in on ‘the book’ with the hopes of finding a few specific ones to best illustrate a point I had. With thousands of photos to look through, I decided the best idea would be to start from the back and work my way to the front. Holding down the back arrow key, I began to scroll rapidly through the images and something funny happened.

I began to see a slide show of my life in the last 10 years.

Now, that might seem kind of trivial to you, but for this sentimental soul, it was anything but. The pictures scrolled by too fast for me to register each one but slow enough for me to get snapshots of moments in life that I had forgotten. People I hadn’t talked to you in forever. Places I have visited. Costumes I have worn. Friendships being established. Experiences that have shaped who I am. It was like one of those flip books that tell a story through images when you flip through them quickly. It was surreal. Life goes by so fast and those moments seem like yesterday. Seeing all that I have done in the last ten years and the places God has taken me, I found myself feeling very blessed. Bittersweet of course, knowing I can’t relive those times, but also stirring up unbelievable thankfulness for a life full of fun experiences and relationships that have made me who I am.

I highly recommend you do a little Facebook Flashback yourself. Start at your very first picture ever posted and then hold down your left arrow key (so as to go fast) and relive your life…at least what’s been documented on Facebook. It may seem silly, but to me, I think it’s a great reminder of where we have been so we can be thankful and look forward to where we are going. Plus, it’s hilarious…

So, in the name of Facebook Flashbacks and a full life,

I Say, Take Me Back!

And since every post is better with a picture, here is one I found while scrolling…and was reminded of that time that my twin sister and I auditioned to be the ‘Doublemint Twins.’ True and shameless story. Thank you Facebook Flashback for the resurrection of this memory.

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A Thank You to All of My Clients

Last night I got my clients to traipse out in to a field with longhorns, through longhorn droppings mind you, where we almost immediately got caught in a rainstorm and waited it out under a tree….all the while in their wedding day attire..PRE-ceremony. Then, after we waited for the rain to subside, I somehow got them to sit down in a field of wildflowers…a WET field of wildflowers. Granted, I had a blanket, but still! As we walked back to the barn, I was reminded of something I have known for a long time but never want to take for granted. That is that I have the best clients a girl could ask for. No really, I mean it. I have been so blessed over the years to get to work with really wonderful people who trust me to do what I do and let me create. When a client looks at me and says, ‘We trust you. Just tell us what you want us to do,” it makes me feel SO honored and lucky to work with them. As an artist, those words are music to your ears. Just the other day, my sister said, ‘Sometimes it hits me of the magnitude that people trust you to capture such a special day in their lives.’ Sometimes it hits me too and I am humbled. Truly humbled.

So, today, I just want to take a quick minute and say a huge thank you to all of my past and present clients out there! Thanks for trusting me to capture one of the most significant days of your lives or even the significant moments of all stages of life.  I have been so privileged to ‘stand in the rain’ with so many of you. To watch out for cow patties and the giant animals who made them, ready to make a break for it at any minute. To laugh when things don’t quite happen according to plan. To bustle your dresses. Pin your boutonnieres. Help fix your hair and make up. Do ridiculous things to make your children smile. Laugh when things aren’t going quite right. To cry with you as you promise forever to the love of your love. To dance with you in celebration. And to send you off to start your new lives together. Thanks for letting me be there with you and for trusting me to capture this beautiful thing we call life.

Without each of you, life through my lens would be far less satisfying.

Happy Monday and Happy Memorial Day! Sandvall_0004

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